When your heart belongs to someone, there is no better way to express your feelings than a letter. Take inspiration from these truly legendary love letters for her.
The Best Love Letters for Her of All Time
John Keats to Fanny Brawne
When poet John Keats fell in love with Fanny Brawne, he penned exquisite letters to her, like this one from October 1819:
“My love has made me selfish. I cannot exist without you — I am forgetful of every thing but seeing you again — my Life seems to stop there — I see no further. You have absorb’d me. I have a sensation at the present moment as though I was dissolving—I should be exquisitely miserable without the hope of soon seeing you. I should be afraid to separate myself far from you. My sweet Fanny, will your heart never change? My love, will it?”
Emily Dickinson to Susan Gilbert
Poet Emily Dickinson wrote a plethora of letters to her first and greatest love, Susan Gilbert, over a period of forty years. One gorgeous letter from 1852 reads:
“Come with me this morning to the church within our hearts, where the bells are always ringing, and the preacher whose name is Love — shall intercede for us!”
Beethoven to his Immortal Beloved
While the identity of composer Ludwig van Beethoven’s beloved is unknown, his words to her have stood the test of time. Historians found one passionate ten-page letter:
“Even in bed my ideas yearn towards you, my Immortal Beloved, here and there joyfully, then again sadly, awaiting from Fate, whether it will listen to us. I can only live, either altogether with you or not at all. Yes, I have determined to wander about for so long far away, until I can fly into your arms and call myself quite at home with you, can send my soul enveloped by yours into the realm of spirits — yes, I regret, it must be.”
Vita Sackville-West to Virginia Woolf
During their steamy love affair, Vita Sackville-West wrote stunning letters to writer Virginia Woolf. One love letter from 1926 reads,
“I am reduced to a thing that wants Virginia. I composed a beautiful letter to you in the sleepless nightmare hours of the night, and it has all gone: I just miss you, in a quite simple desperate human way…I miss you even more than I could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal. So this letter is just really a squeal of pain. It is incredible how essential to me you have become. I suppose you are accustomed to people saying these things…I can’t be clever and stand-offish with you: I love you too much for that. Too truly…”
How to Write Your Own Love Letter for Her That She’ll Cherish Forever
A love letter is an incredible gift that the recipient is likely to keep for years. Here are some tips for making your love letter one-of-a-kind.
- Write from the Heart
What makes a love letter truly special is that it comes from you. Be genuine and candid. Tell her how she makes you feel, and what you hope blossoms in the future. Don’t be afraid to get vulnerable—it may feel scary, but it will ultimately be a relief to put your feelings out in the open.
- Paint Images with the Five Senses
If you are stuck on how exactly to express your devotion, start by thinking of the five senses. What color do you see when you think of her? What does her name sound like to you? What smells or tastes remind you of her? Dive into these sensations and see what unfolds.
- Use Beautiful Stationery
Presentation is a key part of showing her how much she means to you. The first thing she sees when she opens your letter will be the paper it’s written on, so you want to make a good impression. Use stationary that matches how special she is to you. Buy or handcraft a beautiful card, or write your letter on a piece of quality writing paper.
- Seal Your Letter with Care
The little details can mean the world in a love letter. There are many creative ways that you can seal your letter to add that special touch. For instance, you can use a wax seal, tie it closed with ribbon, secure it with pretty washi tape, or use a sticker that she’ll enjoy.
- Add a Little Something Extra
For the cherry on top, add a little token to your letter. It can be a flower, pressed inside the letter or secured to the envelope. Or, for a personal touch, you could include a photograph, perhaps of a fond memory of your time together.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How do I write a love letter to my wife or girlfriend? 
Choose beautiful stationary, write from the heart, and seal your letter with care. You can write and submit your own love letter at Imperfect Ink.
How do I start and end a love letter?
When it comes to love letters, authenticity goes a long way. Be sure to start and end your love letter with personal descriptions of you and your love.
How do I make her cry with a love letter?
Women love a partner who can share their heart-felt emotions. Be true and honest with your feelings when writing her a love letter.
What makes a love letter romantic?
Make a love letter romantic by painting a picture with your words using the five senses. Head over to Imperfect Ink to read example love letters from others.
